Yes, sadly financial disagreements can lead to antipathy and conflict. My 12 year old son has owed me, for some time, £5 change from £10 i leant him for a Tesco meal deal. However, although I resent the lack of repayment I still find it in my heart to love him.
Hmm, you seem to be a fairly tolerant, forgiving and pleasant kind of person. That does seem to be a little suspicious and dare i say it sinister. Please try to be a little less decent as there are forum rules we all need to abide by for the sake of consistency.